14 months old
19 October 2007To my little girl,
Now you’re fourteen months! You’re a very darling girl, very charming. And you’re quite tall for your age!
You are starting to learn to walk though you’re not quite there yet—you can take some steps! First you started getting frustrated because you couldn’t carry your baby doll or a ball while crawling. You started practicing standing up without holding on to something (you can do that for a short time now), and you would take a step or two if you could hand on Mommy or Daddy. Eventually you would walk a few steps between us. Instead of crawling up to your push walker, if we put you down a couple of feet from it you would take the steps instead of getting down to crawl and then pulling back up. Usually if you walk we are holding one of your hands (just one! Not two anymore!) The push walkers are perfect for you right now and you zip back and forth across the kitchen; but you can’t get it over the threshold into the living room, so you cry for us to come, and we ask you to sign “please” (you don’t sign quite yet, though) and help you get it over. But you can now steer the walkers really well and even go backwards!
You still fall quite a lot when you walk, and you mostly crawl, but you usually don’t care about falling unless you fall flat on your face! One night while you were practicing walking you had a plastic toy in your hand, and you fell and knocked the toy accidentally right into Daddy’s mouth! The bottom half shattered and Daddy had to have the dentist rebuild it. Usually it’s the baby who has the injury when learning to walk, not the Daddy! Better him than you, we said.
You do lots of fun things. You love to play pretend with your tea set, and play with balloons and balls and cars. You can throw and kick balls, but we have to remind you that you can’t throw other toys, just balls. We call you our little soccer player. You love your baby doll, and can play with her for an hour, taking off diaper, picking her up, putting her on your rocking chair. You call her, “Baby.” You pretend to sneeze when Mommy sneezes. You can sort shapes with us for long stretches of time—you think it’s fascinating. Puzzles are fun, too, and we can say, “Where does the giraffe go?” and you will find it and put it in place! You like to hold things by their handles if they have them, and you just adore buttons. Sometimes we sit and bounce on the bed and you say, “yayayay!” You are too cute. We went to an indoor play place this month with lots of air-inflated slides and places to bounce and we just had the best time. You loved it because when you tried walking in there and fell, you just bounced and it didn’t hurt! I can still see your big grin on your face when you crawled around in the obstacle courses. You are fearless! Also, you went pee pee in the potty, but we don’t think you knew it; you just always pee when we start the bath water, so we just stuck you on the toilet and you went!
You have also learned how to go down the stairs safely (we remind you, “Go down safely, feet first” and you hear us and remember). Y can play the recorder and you’ve learned how to use a bowl (without throwing it), use a spoon and hold it level (you think this is so fun you eat more!) and hold your bottle. You do let us know when you are done eating by throwing your food.Climbing is captivating—you want to climb everything, and will put your foot up high even on things you have no chance of being able to climb, like the baby gate, just to see if you can. This month you’re getting your molars, so it has been very rough for sleeping. Hopefully they’ll be in soon! You can do “high five,” and you really want to stand up in the grocery cart right now. It’s hard to take you shopping since you aren’t interested in staying seated—you want to explore! In the kitchen, we have a step stool (we call it the “snack station” because you hang around there and eat snacks sometimes) with a little hidey-hold compartment that you sometimes hide your toys in. You love putting things in other things! Books are very intriguing now, and you can sit and “read” to yourself and point to things so we’ll tell you what they are.
You are very good in restaurants. You just love to eat and all the people coming and goig fascinate you! There’s a particular Mexican restaurant you often join Mommy and her friends and their kids, and you are good buddies with one of the bus boys there. You guys light up to see each other! Mostly we eat at home, and this month you particularly liked beets, champagne grapes, soy milk, mangoes, raspberries, and lentils.
You’ve started asking for milk by saying, “muh muh muh” but that might mean “Mommy” instead—hard to say—sometimes it seems like you are saying, “mama” when you want something, not just milk. You call a lot of things “buzhy buzhy budee budee” and you say, “up” and hold up your arms when you want us to pick you up! You’ve also said “duh” for down, and “puh puh” for either potty or poo poo (we put your poop in the potty so we use those words a lot to talk about it). Imitating sounds is fun, like “shoe” and “tweet tweet” (which we say Alice says.) If we ask you, you can point to where your head and belly button (beebo) are—you are very excited to do this and you grin and pat yourself wildly.
The animals are still fascinating to you. You crawl up to our big dog Loki, who weighs 120 lbs more than you, and nose to nose, kiss each other. You just love it when the doggies play—you get so excited. We are working on patting the cats nicely, but you are still a little overenthusiastic. Sometimes we have to tell you, “no” and that makes you sad.
This month you’ve had lots of time with Daddy since Mommy has been teaching and attending classes. You two spend time in the playroom, read books, and go out in the backyard and play with your slide and your swing. You go to a babysitter’s a couple of hours a week, where you play with a handful of other little one-year-olds. When Daddy comes to pick you up, you are always surprised to see him, since it was Mommy who dropped you off. And then he takes you to the store, and you have dinner, and play, and then he puts you to bed. You two have a great time together!
You like to hand things to us, and sometimes are very clear when you want us to do something; you’ll grab our hands and move them and say, “uh!” Of course, when you are hungry or tired, you get more frustrated when you can’t get your toys to cooperate, and clingy. Overally, though, your disposition is just delightful. We take you to the playground at the park a lot, or meet your friends and their mommies (Mommy’s friends), and you are so fun for everyone to be with. We are so proud of how you are doing—you are such a dear thing.
We love you
Mommy and Daddy